This is actually a matter of trust. Does this person actually believe you have migraines? Do they understand what a migraine really is? Or that you have absolutely no control over your attacks? I'm lucky because my husband works for a brain injury association and he actually knows how the brain works. Plus as he often says, "Can't be much fun for you, so why would you choose it?" Other words, he KNOWS I don't want migraines and that I'd rather be doing anything rather than suffering through one.

It sounds like a non-believer. If they have never had one, they seem to be the person that has little to no compassion for others and is very selfish. Move on from people like this. If they have no clue, they don't deserve you!